Human interactions are based on mutual trust, and so are humans and cats. When you want to get close to a stray cat, maybe just repeat the feeding for a few days and it will quietly approach you. But once they lose trust in you, the way they get alo...
Human interactions are based on mutual trust, and so are humans and cats. When you want to get close to a stray cat, maybe just repeat the feeding for a few days and it will quietly approach you. But once they lose trust in you, the way they get along will become completely different from the past.
For this matter, take the "milk" and "wonton" from a friend's house as an example. They have very distinct personalities and are extremely afraid of being silly and sweet. I remember when I first brought the milk back to his house, I stayed in the cardboard box for a whole week. It only dared to come out to eat cat food when everyone was sleeping at night, and wontons perfectly adapted to the new environment with just one can.
Happy that half a month later, milk has become a cat that can be ravaged at will. It is no longer afraid of others, it has become clingy and full of curiosity. However, wontons run to the hospital every day due to cornea damage. They need injections on their eyes during the day, and forced ointment and medicine to be fed at night. One by one, the things that make it painful make it become afraid of contact with people. Even though I have recovered from health, I have never seen it spin behind me again.
You may think that cats are sensitive and "revengeful", so wontons should never be as silly and sweet as they were when they first came. But in fact, no matter what type of cat you have or its personality, as long as you give it enough respect and trust, it will gradually revive these feelings and regain that trust.
The behavior of a cat when distrusts:
· Rarely stay by your side
· Pupil vibrates when approaching
· Body hair
· Escape
· Haqi Warning
How to establish a trust relationship with a cat?
· Respect its space
If a cat becomes sensitive because of a new environment, it needs to give it some time to adapt and give it an independent and comfortable space, such as a cardboard box with a hole. Remember not to invade those spaces before it recovers.
· Observe body language
to judge its emotions through the body language of a cat. For example, its tail is relaxed upward, its tail slowly shakes is curious, its tail violently shakes is angry, and its tail is upright and its hair is frightened and frightened.
· Wait for it to come to you on its own initiative
Don’t force it to do anything, let it decide when to interact with you, that will be the most comfortable time in its heart. Cats are animals with strong observation skills. Even if you do not communicate directly, they can understand you by observing your movements, smells, and sounds.
· Avoid terrible objects
Most cats don't like vacuum cleaners, hair dryers, etc., try to put them in a quiet place and close the door, and give them a little toys and snacks, which will give them a sense of security.
· Understand the limit of being touched by a cat
Use a step-by-step method to understand the cat's favorite touch area. Never poke it or tease it, use predictable actions. When you stroke it is aggressive, it should reduce the number of times and time.
· Let it make choices and respect its decisions
Where you sleep and rest, or whether you are willing to play, let the cat decide, build its confidence and let it know that you will not force it to do anything~
· Do predictable behavior
Don't move and talk in a way that scares the cat, and don't stomp your feet suddenly on the floor, try to keep a calm and calm voice.
· Keep its activity active. Control the enthusiasm for interacting with the cat, avoid using toys that make the cat feel angry or aggressive. Remember to let it catch the toy occasionally, otherwise it may feel like you are teasing it.
· Reward it often
You can reward it with snacks, strokes, toys, or your gentle voice, which can be because of any good behavior. You can also use rewards to encourage it to do some good things.
· Leave your scent
When you leave your home, you can place your clothes near their food or hideout areas to familiarize them with and accept the scent.
· Punishment is prohibited because cats cannot communicate with humans, so when you punish it, the cat will only feel that it is meaningless violence, and these behaviors will only make it remember fear and pain.
Restore the trust of a cat is not easy and takes a long time. Just like educating children, everyone has different personalities. We should try to understand their personalities and psychological states, interact with them, and even if we are busy, we should express your love to them~
