With the popularization of the national eugenic policy, many families have only one child. Therefore, many parents hold the principle of not letting their children lose at the starting line. From prenatal education, they hope that their children wil...
With the popularization of the national eugenic policy, many families have only one child. Therefore, many parents hold the principle of not letting their children lose at the starting line. From prenatal education, they hope that their children will be smart and full of wisdom. From birth to preschool education, they will receive good education. When the children are two or three years old, they will start to receive early education, that is, early education. So is early education good? Can children receive education too early? Can children improve their memory and thinking ability?
Because parents and friends attach importance to early education, many institutions of early education have emerged. Many children have been receiving early education from birth to kindergarten. It is undeniable that early education has brought many benefits to young children, and it is also the best time to cultivate children's intelligence and improve their learning ability.
1. Create a pleasant family atmosphere for children. Research shows that children can truly feel the family atmosphere from the age of 2. Different family atmospheres will make children respond differently in their thoughts, attitudes and general behaviors. If children feel happy and safe at home, their psychology and personality can develop well; if the family is noisy all day long, the children are often in a nervous and worried environment, and they are prone to negative emotions and behavioral problems. In kindergartens, we often find that children from single-parent families often show bad psychological and behavioral tendencies such as introvert, fear, sadness, anxiety, indifference or aggressiveness. They often cry and make a fuss about small things, and it is difficult to stop them. If these bad psychological and behavioral tendencies are not guided correctly in time, they will be biased. In mild cases, they will be timid, lonely, stubborn and unsociable, and in severe cases, they will develop bad mentality such as jealousy and hatred towards others or have an indifferent attitude towards everything. Therefore, single-parent families should pay special attention to creating a pleasant family atmosphere for their children, so as to facilitate the formation of a good personality and the healthy psychological development of their children.
Children are innocent, and there is no reason why they are not lucky. This requires parents of single-parent families to learn to restrain their bad emotions so that their children can grow up healthily in the bright sunshine or in the storm.
2. Create a good cultural atmosphere for children
Parents are mirrors for children to shape themselves. As a father or mother of a single-parent family, you should pay great attention to the huge impact that you may have on your child’s behavior, psychological state and personality traits. You should always pay attention to your words and deeds, and do not show bad habits in front of your children, such as lying, speaking out, and irresponsible. Don’t treat your children based on your joys, anger, sorrows, and happiness. Otherwise, the adverse effects of bad habits will often lead a good child to go astray.
We should cultivate children's interests and hobbies according to their characteristics. I often take my children to listen to concerts, watch calligraphy and painting exhibitions, play interesting games with my children, etc., to create a good cultural atmosphere for my children, so that my children can get out of the pain of losing fatherly or maternal love as soon as possible, and gradually develop a cheerful and confident personality.
3. Let the child learn to take on family responsibilities
Don't spoil the child because he loses fatherly or maternal love. You should be assured and bold as you let the child do what he can, let the child understand the various situations in the family, and if necessary, you can ask older children to participate in decision-making on major family matters, etc. When children do things within their ability, they should encourage them more to cultivate their independence. Let children know from an early age that they also have certain responsibilities to their families, so that they can consciously shoulder their responsibilities to their families and society when they grow up.
4. Create more interpersonal environments for children
In view of the characteristics of children in single-parent families, such as tending to be introverted and withdrawn, allowing children to have more contact with society and create more opportunities for interpersonal communication for children, which is a good method of correction.
5. Let the unreasonable parties visit the child more or both parents take turns raising the child to facilitate the growth of the child
In the process of the child's growth, fatherly love and maternal love are both essential. Single-parent families should work hard to satisfy their children's desire for these two kinds of love. Let the unresponsive parties visit the child more or both parents take turns raising the child, which is very beneficial to the child's growth.
Early education education also has many benefits. Letting children receive early education prematurely is of certain help to their learning environment. Many children's good living habits and polite habits are also cultivated since childhood. The external environment also has a great impact on their children. The child's brain develops the fastest before the age of three, so many parents must seize this opportunity to cultivate good habits in their children. At the same time, they should also be careful not to be tired and choose early education correctly.
