The former silence passed by the god of death! Lin Chi-ling reveals her elegant way: When encountering a problem, "face it, solve it or let it go, and then start the process"

The start process starts again, instead of standing still.

When I encounter a problem, I have a reflective numeral: "Faced, resolved, or let go, and then start the process."

There is no option to escape, because escaping is equivalent to standing still, and I don't think that finding someone to bear the responsibility of the error is the way to solve it. Our lives are a process of making decisions or solving them all the time. And in the end you will understand that you are responsible for yourself, and no one can help you throughout the process.

In 2005, I had a serious accident while shooting an advertisement in a big league. The horse I was riding at that time should have been running on the flat grassland, but suddenly it was uncontrollably running towards the forest.

Actually, I was not thrown down, I decided to jump off the moment before I was about to enter the forest. At that moment, I knew that only by jumping off the horse could I protect myself.

The decision you make in one second determines your future. Of course, afterwards, it was blank, as if the body's soul had gone to a different world. When I woke up, I saw a lot of blood on the white wall, which confirmed that I was in the hospital. I foreseeed a discussion by the doctor next to me: A fracture of the six ribs and seven fractures, one centimeter above is the heart, so I was not saved. OK, then I can at least live.

When facing the white ceiling every day, my body suffers huge pain, and every breath is painful. I was afraid, unknown, and uneasy, but I didn't dare to fall a single eye. Because if you cry, your body twitches will definitely hurt more. I want to use all my spirit to repair every cell, and I must recover.

The company and family members have discussed who should be responsible and who should solve it. Of course, it also includes various suggestions from the lawyer. If this case is too conscientious, it must be sued for retrieval. Because I was still a small model at that time, I didn’t have any basic insurance. In my memory, I used a very weak force and said, "No need, please let go. I will get better by myself."

2 options for encountering problems: solve or let go

This is really not the best example, but it is indeed the biggest setback and difficulty I encountered in my life. No one can solve it, not even myself.

My choice that time was to let go. Resolving or letting go seems to be easy, but there may be many emotions in the middle, helpless, panic, fearful, uneasy, or uneasy, or disappointment in the heart.

But in fact, many times, we are trapped by ourselves. It is not the problem itself, but the fact that there are various emotions in our hearts spreading around it. As a result, time and energy were not focused on solving problems, but were backwards and wrestling with emotions, and they couldn't get along with themselves.

Solution gives you the opportunity to grow; let go, giving you the opportunity to solve it. Then, no matter whether the pace is heavy, firm or light, you can finally make a good journey forward.

Don't be afraid to make decisions. When encountering setbacks, we can face it calmly. There are only two options: solve or let go. Please don't fall into the whirlpool of standing still because it's difficult for you to fall into the whirlpool of standing still.

I have always believed that the greater the difficulty God gives you, the greater the wisdom it gives you. Have a pattern of letting go. Let go, there may be a more beautiful turn. Turn around and look at another sky.

【ChiLing Elegant Reminder】

◆When encountering a problem, face it, solve it or let it go, and then start the process. There is no escape option.

◆Solution gives you the opportunity to grow; let go, giving you the opportunity to solve it.

※This article is excerpted from the far stream "Just Good Elegance: Sister Zhiling's Way to Repair"