As family members leave each other, choosing to live bravely is the most admirable thing. Huang Xiudan, 60, suffered from Parkinson's disease. With her family left, she did not choose to be depressed. Instead, she used a painting to confront her...
As family members leave each other, choosing to live bravely is the most admirable thing. Huang Xiudan, 60, suffered from Parkinson's disease. With her family left, she did not choose to be depressed. Instead, she used a painting to confront her fate, grasped the time of every day, and wanted to use her body to tremble in her heart while her body was not shaking violently, and she was so nervous that she had been in a bad mood in her brain that she had been in a bad state. The three sisters above were all given to her as nurses and children's daughters-in-law by her father. Before she was sent to her, her second brother secretly hid her. Her father, who had only one eye and vision, couldn't bear it, so he agreed to keep her, avoiding the unknown fate of being raised. Under the love of the whole family, the little girl grew up happily and became a graceful girl waiting to marry.
As the only daughter in the family, the whole family helped her to hold a wedding, and her husband's family was very cautious. Everything in the wedding was as usual, and she married with the blessings of her family and her neighborhood. Unexpectedly, Huang Xiudan, who loves children, cannot have children after marriage. She tried to inseminate artificially. After 4 years, her belly remained calm. The mother-in-law comforted her, "No one has made a decision, don't be difficult."
Later, when the mother-in-law saw that Huang Xiudan was depressed day by day, she proposed to raise her uncle's daughter. After the 4-year-old girl entered the door, Huang Xiudan was very caring and left the best for her and treated her as if she had done her own life. When his eldest daughter was 8 years old, Huang Xiudan accidentally caught up with her second daughter and her younger son. The whole family was happy and happy. Her parents-in-law often traveled with their children, so that Huang Xiudan could go to work with her.
Pictures, in order to leave behind people who can't stay,
At the age of 48, a car made the happy Huang Xiudan a helpless caregiver. The mother-in-law who loved her passed away and her father-in-law had severe fractures on her feet. In addition, she had to distract herself from taking care of three children and working at the same time. One day, she went out to work and was sprayed alone. The first thing she did was not to take a break, but to take her father-in-law back to the clinic. The nurse asked, "Do you want to check the clinic or the elderly want to check?" She couldn't answer for a while and was exhausted.
In fact, after passing the death car, his father-in-law not only had a broken foot and lost his wife, but also had a serious mental state. He was so serious that he was not good at expressing his emotions and anger. He often cried in the room. Unexpectedly, he did not go alone. At the age of 50, Huang Xiudan shook his hands frequently and was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease. At the age of 56, his son had a serious car accident and was rescued. He suddenly passed away the next day.
After the deepest pain, Huang Xiudan, encouraged by her husband and daughter, studied paintings in order to move the pain and physical illness of her son. Every day, when her hands are not shaking, she tightly draws what she thinks in her heart. If she encounters her body trembling severely, she does not complain, but only reminds herself to bravely share the disease, seize only the limited time left, and work hard to paint what she thinks in her heart, just to leave someone who "can't stay".
She also donated all the money she sold, chose to help more people, and continued her love for her son.
Everyone's life is a rich book
In fact, every elder has many rich life stories. If they are not preserved strictly, they will be buried in the torrent of time. The "Extraordinary Elder Cloud Story Book" project launched by Yijizi Foundation should be systematically sorted, recorded and preserved their life stories while the elders have not forgotten them.
After visiting the story book, Huang Xiudan's inner emotions were guided, and she was able to express and re-examine her life. This is also an alternative way of life.
In addition, a senior who accepted the service of "Extraordinary Elder Cloud Story Book" mentioned that the child had lost contact with him because of poor family relationships in the past, but if one day he left first and the child remembered him, perhaps with the service of this story book, the child could hear what he wanted to say but didn't say again.
The original article was published on July 9, 2019. "This weekly magazine Happy and mature": The middle-aged man suffered from Parkinson's disease again! She forgets her pain by doing: the rest of her time is to leave behind people who can't stay
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