A public complained online that after she got married with her boyfriend, her family hoped that she could live with them, but after moving in, she realized that she was like a maid who wanted to "kneel down and pour water" and "when s...
A public complained online that after she got married with her boyfriend, her family hoped that she could live with them, but after moving in, she realized that she was like a maid who wanted to "kneel down and pour water" and "when stepping into her husband's house, she had to act as a stranger with her mother." Even if she communicated with her boyfriend, her boyfriend could not communicate, making her unable to know whether she was a "servant or a nanny?", which made her heart hurt.
A netizen complained in the "Anonymous Commune" that after getting married with her boyfriend, her mother-in-law hoped to move in and live with her. After moving in, she realized that their family regarded themselves as "slaves or nanny", and even her father-in-law had to help him drink water, "and even kneel down and pour water." This made the original PO feel like a maid. After communicating with her boyfriend, her boyfriend coldly said, "I will behave in the future", which made the original PO very disappointed with him.
The original PO also said that his mother was hospitalized because she was sick and wanted to help her take care of her. But the mother-in-law said, "You are already from our family. How can your mother not take care of herself? What does it look like if you, an outsider, help me take care of you?" The original PO was quite dissatisfied, and her boyfriend was still angry at this time, saying, "Don't want me to help you, please take care of me." , When you marry our house, you should be a stranger with your mother. Who would help strangers? Please see what you talk to your mother? Kneel down and agree with his mother." Facing this future mother-in-law and husband, YuanPO was discouraged, so he had to complain online to relieve his mood.
Netizens were very angry after seeing the post. Some people suggest that the original PO should take his position as the first consideration. If they follow their "emperor" and "queen" lifestyle, it will only help their enthusiasm. Therefore, they can raise their posture and move back to their parents' home and find their own life. Unless the family can respect you, they can consider termination of the marriage. Some readers also suggested that they just want to marry, but were treated like father-in-law and mother-in-law. In the future, they would have to live like this. "It would be better if they just want to be married." What they lack is the mate who signed a contract, not a daughter-in-law. If they can leave, just leave!
Other countrymen also tried to lead the original PO, "I don't know how to run away, and my life will be harder in the future", "Don't bury yourself, no one who is a parent wants their children to live such a life. No matter how good your partner is, it's useless because his family The quality is too poor, you should be regressed soon! ", "Don't think about it, leave the haunted house", "I only have one mother. As long as you have the ability to change a few, you can change a few, think about it!"
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